About Us
About our Blog
The9jamom
is a blog created by a first-time Nigerian mother who writes honestly about the ups and downs of motherhood, especially from a Nigerian perspective. Here, we share the funny, the hard, and the beautiful parts of raising a baby in a culture that’s anything but boring. If you've ever searched online for answers and felt like “these oyibo people no understand us,” this is your safe space.
We keep it real, Nigerian style
We talk about motherhood the way we live it.
First-Time Mom
This blog was born the same time my baby was—when everything felt new, scary, and full of love.
Made for Nigerian Mothers
What works abroad doesn’t always work here. This blog speaks your language, culture, and reality.
Written With Heart
Every post is a real-life diary entry, very in the moment with varying amounts of humour and honesty.
What We Hope to Accomplish
Give Nigerian moms a space they can finally relate to
Document real experiences that reflect both cultural norms and personal truths.
Share helpful, no-pressure stories and tips that make motherhood feel lighter.
Build a warm, non-judgmental community of Nigerian mothers online.
What's in it for you
Laughter and relief
Because some days, that’s all you need to feel better.
Nigerian-specific advice
That actually makes sense in your day-to-day life
Comfort in shared struggles
Knowing you’re not “doing it wrong,” you’re just Nigerian
A friend in your corner
who understands what it means to be tired, unsure, and totally in love with your baby.
experts
About Me
Ebunoluwa Bassey
Writer/Mom
I don’t have it all figured out and I’m not even going to pretend like I do. But motherhood has shown me how strong and weak I can be at the same time. Every day I’m showing up even when I’m most tired and I would like to share the experience. I write from my heart, even the unseen part, a mirror of motherhood through my own eyes influenced by being a Nigerian knowing we’re built differently and we don’t break easily. So if you’re a Nigerian mom who’s ever felt different, tired, or unsure but deeply in love with your baby, you’re in the right place. Ps. This is an AI generated image of my face.
If you have any questions about us
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